After the Harvey Weinstein saga, it has become more frightening than ever for men, especially men of privilege and power, to figure out how to behave appropriately towards attractive women. While many will fear being perceived as a prey which could stain their reputation and career, closing down and completely pulling back may not be the most serving act either. 
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Feminine and masculine energetic polarities hold great power for co-creation and aliveness. I believe we live in an era where women and men are called forth to harness with great mastery this polarity that exists between us in service to our personal evolution as well as cultural transformation. In fact, following implicit social agreements of what’s culturally appropriate isn’t enough. Too often, being a good ‘loyal soldier’ leads to leaks as people find themselves hungry to act on primal sexual instincts. 
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The key: learn to read the field of what’s happening within and around you with great awareness and cultivate a grounded, open hearted presence.     
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This post seeks to offer you some guidance that may prove to be useful to enhance the co-creative potential of your interactions with the other gender. 
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Dear Men: 
When you meet an attractive person, do be aware: it is a powerful moment where your energy can either leak or root and rise. Your energy will leak if you leave your center and unconsciously seek to consume this juicy energy that turns you on. You might find yourself offering a seducing comment or making a gesture of some sorts that reveals your draw. Instead, practice slowing down by receiving quietly the gift of the bodily sensations they ignites within every cells of your body. Breath them in all the way into your pelvis and into your feet. Notice what happens when you hold the gift of their presence within you. In that moment, they embody the muse and becomes a catalyst here to help you connect to your own feminine energy – your creative life force within. By grounding yourself in this way while cultivating an open hearted presence towards them, you naturally create a safe and trustworthy field between you and them that can grow and deepen over time. This creative or relational energy field can become a source of strong co-creative power. Unfortunately, due to our lack of energetic understanding and awareness, this polarity tends to be too often misled based on primordial instincts that unconsciously take over or become under harnessed if you are too closed down.  
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You are invited to become a strong energy holder: imagine your body being a vessel here to hold infinite co-creative power.   
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Dear Women: 
When someone emanates an energy towards you where polarity is palpable, practice grounding yourself in your body as well. Let that energy move through your whole being. Do not give in. Let it rather open you up while setting clear energetic boundaries by staying rooted in your own center and grounded in your pelvic floor. Take notice of how you feel and what awakens within you. Becoming aware of this energetic dance is a powerful act. It is the first step towards stepping into your feminine power: a power, when consciously embodied and harvested can transform lives and allow you to become fully yourself as an outstanding co-creator in service to your highest destiny. Remember, do not give in. While your ego may gain faster rewards by engaging in a flirtatious or seductive dance, remember the field can fast become murky or fall flat and uninteresting after the energy present in the moment has been consumed. Note that conscious openhearted men tend to particularly value women who stand strong within their core with great self respect, sense of worthiness and dignity. These are likely the type of women many men want to co-create and transform the world with. While men won’t be able to control you, they will find joy and fulfillment in standing by your side as empowered respectful and enlivened co-creators. 
In closing, wishing to offer you a quote I love from Queen Elizabeth from the Film Elizabeth. 
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I am beholden to no man. 
God, give me the strength to bare this magnificent freedom. 
I am your Queen. 
I am myself. 
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